When we were taught about sex, we understood one basic principle: sexual satisfaction for men is delivered through their exterior genitals, while women achieve it internally. But it looks like men were sold short with that explanation, because another pleasurable center exists inside their body. Prostate induced orgasms aren’t as widely publicized as the penile version. But there is an enthusiastic community of people who have experienced these wildly strong and intensed lengthy orgasms. There is a reason why the sex toy industry seems to be overflowing with prostate stimulators , massagers and plugs.
For some, these orgasms remains a largely unexplored, uncomfortable territory. It’s for these men that we bring the five steps to achieving an amazing prostate induced orgasm.
Anytime anal play is involved, it’s important to take cleanliness into factor. Things have a tendency of getting messy when this area of the body is involved, but an easy routine can help sexual participants avoid embarrassing incidents. For someone looking to achieve a prostate induced orgasm, anal douching is probably a good idea. The process flushes your body of fecal matter so you don’t have to worry about it coming out during sex.
The penetrator should also take some considerations to maximize his or her partner’s experience. The skin around the anus is sensitive, and can tear easily, so trimmed nails, and clean hands are a must.
Unlike a vagina, the anus isn’t designed for penetration. Lots of lube should be used, and should be continuously applied throughout the journey. For those who aren’t used to being penetrated, a little warm up will definitely help out. Prepare your partner for penetration by grazing the butt cheeks, stroking the shaft and massaging the anus (which is loaded with as many nerve endings as your erogenous zones). You can figure out where your partner wants to be caressed is by asking.
3. Find it
Finding the prostate may not be simple for those who haven’t done it before. But it’s not so hard. It’s best to start when you’re already aroused, Because the prostate will swell. The prostate can be located externally via the perineum (the diamond-shaped area between the scrotum and the anus). It is possible for you to reach orgasm simply by having pressure applied to the area along with a generous massage. But if you prefer a more direct approach, penetration is the way to go. The prostate is located about two inches below the rectum toward the scrotum. After inserting a finger you should feel a chestnut-sized ball. Moving the finger in a “come here” motion toward the navel can stimulate the prostate to the point of orgasm.
4. Use Your Muscles
We’ve all heard of Kegels, but some don’t realize is that both sexes can benefit from this kind of exercise. The Pubococcygeus (PC) muscles not only help men maintain control over urination and blood flow to the penis, but can help them during orgasm as well. Much like the female G-spot orgasm, prostate induced orgasms are achieved and maintained through a series of muscle contractions, so strengthening this area is key. There’re many different ways you can do this, but one of the most effective way is by clenching your butt cheeks and anus. The more control you have over these muscles the longer your orgasm can last.
It’s great to have a partner who can help achieve this type of orgasm, but there’s a whole market for people who go for it solo. The Aneros Progasm Prostate Massager seems to be leading the way when it comes to prostate induced orgasms. The Aneros is a relatively small (3.5 inches), wavy shaped device that can be easily inserted into the anus. It comes equipped with a finger loop for easy removal and a “p-tab” that presses up against the perineum for extra pleasure. By clenching your butt cheeks, pivot the device forward, allowing for contact with the prostate. When your muscles relax, the device reverts back to its starting position. This stroking motion is what stimulates the “p-spot” and allows maximum, toe-curling orgasms. A lot of guys also enjoy wearing a cock ring during prostate stimulation.
Prostate induced pleasure comes with other benefits aside from experiencing amazing, undiscovered orgasms. This process also helps flush out the prostate and increases blood flow to the pelvic area. This can help decrease impotence and provide some cancer prevention.
Aside from the intense pleasure, another appreciated aspect of prostate induced orgasms is that they allow for multiple orgasms (just like females!). With prostate induced orgasms, many men will experience “dry orgasm (orgasm without ejaculation).
Prostate orgasm is something that appeals to both gay and straight men. Unfortunately, homophobia and outdated sexual values seem to have put a damper on general public perspective on the practice. The process of prostate induced orgasms allows men to step outside cemented gender roles and experience a new era of satisfaction. As professional dominatrix Margaret Corvid writes, “It’s an opportunity for men to enjoy the receptivity and vulnerability of being penetrated, which is a fulfilling part of sexuality that is largely off-limits to men in mainstream sexual culture.”